Managing Confict: 6 Key Questions to Ask Yourself

Some people seem to thrive on conflict, seeking it in the tiniest of causes, heaping on catalysts like vodka on a bonfire. Others make a big thing of despising it, preferring to spread it out over time passively and with sniffy comments. Any extreme is always questionable in managing relationships so some sort of sliding … Continue reading Managing Confict: 6 Key Questions to Ask Yourself

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Rip It Up by Richard Wiseman

Positive Psychology is sometimes criticised for over thinking and for really over-reaching on the claim that thought can lead to manifestation. The worst of these claims, in my opinion, is usually wrapped up in the abundance nonsense about how really wishing for something can bring it into your life. Talk about the domain of the … Continue reading Rip It Up by Richard Wiseman

These are the Motivators That Every Person Has (Even if They’re Fictional…)

Sometimes we have to cut the crap and get down to business. Making educated guesses about people so that we can predict their behaviour is one of the most important things we do as social animals. Even something as tiny as having visible pupils on white backgrounds in our eyes give humans an advantage over … Continue reading These are the Motivators That Every Person Has (Even if They’re Fictional…)

The Secret to How a Pack of Playing Cards can Transform Your Social Life

Stop. Flip apps and set an alarm. It should go off the next time you're in a social situation and remind you that you should take 30 short seconds to pause, breath and take a look around you.You'll see the faces and postures of the social group, you'll see conversation, you'll see gestures and you'll … Continue reading The Secret to How a Pack of Playing Cards can Transform Your Social Life

The Magic Bullet for Dealing with Difficult People

You can't get away from the fact that every so often, sometimes in quick succession, you're going to meet a real asshole or ten. These come in two forms: one is the kind that you create. In actual fact the person isn't all that bad but your image of them - what we call the … Continue reading The Magic Bullet for Dealing with Difficult People